How do we select which devices notify of imessage arrival
For the past few weeks I am not getting audible iMessage or other text message notifications on my iPhone 11Pro. Notifications in the notifications center for Messages is turned on for sound and I have selected a sound (Star Wars). The phone volume is reasonable high for other notifications - mail, phone ringing, etc.
I tend to get notifications on my Apple Watch - the notification there is haptic. I often get notifications simultaneously on the watch and desktop. Sometimes it will also show up on the phone.
Do not disturb is turned off.
I find I have missed a few messages recently - discovering that when a few hour later I looked at the phone and saw the unread message.
I don't understand the protocol for priority of message notification when one has multiple devices:watch, iPhone, iPad, desktop - that one is working with or near.
I don't know if I am receiving a haptic message on the watch that I miss, and because it may be the first device to receive the message the phone never send out an audio notification.
Not sure if I am forgetting or unaware of some setting that makes haptic feedback on the watch mute the iPhone.