Cannot airplay connect my iPhone to our HomePod because it paired to a different device on restart
It's taken me weeks to find out why we are having so much trouble connecting to our HomePod. We have three devices we use to play music on it via AirPlay: two iPhones and an iPad.
A typical scenario:
- play something on my iPhone, then try to transfer it to the HomePod via Airplay: after a long time it times out. This with the phone two inches away from the HomePod, or even sitting on top of it.
- unplug HomePod, then plug it in again. **Sometimes** this works, but lately it mostly fails.
Finally, I thought "Maybe it paired to some other device". So next failure, after power cycling it, I gathered all the devices, started playing music, then when I tapped the AirPlay button (not the HomePod, the icon button that opens a sheet with all the possible devices, I found that the HomePod was connected to a device that had been 50 feet away.
So obviously the source of my trouble is that once paired, even if the HomePod isn't doing anything, it will refuse to play music from another device.
So what is the solution? Can I make it forget about all but one device, then that device becomes the designated HomePod controller? This is all just so frustrating - that Apple won't even tell us "You can't play on this device, its paired to xyzzy device".