CarPlay not recognizing enabled iPhone on Ford Edge

I have a Ford Edge and iphone and car play suddenly will not work. I have tried every troubleshooting tip that I've read in this community and on Ford sites. It will almost finish pairing and seem fine and then a message saying I don't have car play enabled on my device comes up. I have car play enabled. I've toggled it off and on a hundred times while restarting phone or rebooting or with a cord/without a cord, turn off the car, wait, turn on the car, repair, forget phone, forget device, etc etc. I've tried everything more involved I've found in here and at Ford.

Has anyone had this problem that your device is enabled but the car won't recognize it. Thanks for any suggestions.

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Original Title: car play issue