Apple forcing purchase of Apple Music

So I’ve spent over 15 hours on web chat with Apple & on the phone as the majority of my purchased music was not showing on my new iPhone 13… Apple could not sort it out, then when they finally found it, the purchases were hidden and they blamed me for it! Despite it showing on my old phone. They undid my purchases and whilst a few purchases did reappear the rest did NOT. These are purchases made since 2006 so loads. I haven’t got a computer or Mac to sync to iTunes and the ‘sync music’ button DID NOT appear in music settings.

I decided after all the hours and time wasted I would sign up to Apple Music with the free 2 months offer and low and behold the ‘sync music’ button has now appeared and most of my music has suddenly appeared in my library. I am fuming! What the **** are Apple doing?!!!! I have no plans to sign up for Apple Music so what happens to my purchases if I don’t? I have paid for them, they clearly show in my purchases history (I have taken screen shots just in case!) this is a disgrace Apple, I would never have bought another iPhone if I thought you were going to be so covert and basically disgraceful…. I’ve had an iPhone since the day it was launched in the uk, this is disgusting